Friends First

As members of friendsfirst you can take advantage of a special discount on the Dating Doctor's one-2-one coaching, Flirting Safaris and Cyber-Seminars. All these are done by Peter Spalton, the Dating Doctor, in person.

A Cyber-Seminar lasts about an hour and is conducted via conference call and email. You receive a workbook by email and during the seminar you will get the chance to ask questions and interact with the other attendees. You can email Peter questions prior to the event which he will answer during the seminar. He will also reply to any questions emailed up to three days after the event.

When you book you will get an email confirming your place. You can cancel up to three days before the event at which point Peter will email you the workbook, conference call phone number and PIN number. Please don't use a speakerphone during the seminar as this causes a lot of background noise. It's best if you can use a headset so you can take notes as you listen and talk.

Each Cyber-Seminar lasts about an hour and starts at 7pm UK London time. The cost for friendsfirst members is £10. But please note that you will have to also pay for the cost of the conference call, which is typically less than £5 from a UK landline and £6 from a mobile phone.

The Flirting Safari is a unique experience to develop and practice your chat-up skills. You will be with a small group who, under Peter's guidance, will practice how to approach and talk to complete strangers in city centre shops and bars.

You will meet in the city centre with a coffee and briefing from the Peter. He will give you some tips on how to approach and talk to strangers and after about half an hour you will hit the streets. You will 'work' the shops & bars for a couple of hours with Peter coaching you. The Safari finishes with a drink and de-brief in a local bar. You are then free to have lunch, shop and practice at your leisure.

This on-street workshop is a unique opportunity to hone your skills and boost your confidence. More importantly it will be great fun and create a wonderful feel good factor. The cost for friendsfirst members is £40 for a three-hour Safari.

Scheduled dates for Peter's Cyber-Seminars and the Flirting Safari are:

Approach & Talk to Strangers - Monday 2 July.

Flirting Safari (London) - Saturday 18 August.

How to Make Small Talk - Monday 10 September

The Art of Flirting - Monday 8 October.

If you want to be kept informed of the Dating Doctor's events for Friends First please click here and mention whereabouts you live.

Face-2-Face Coaching  

£45.00 incl VAT

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Face-2-Face Coaching Sometimes attending a workshop or cyber-seminar is not for you - you may want a safe place to discuss your concerns and address some very specific issues. In that case, face-2-face coaching is the answer.

Most face to face coaching sessions take place in the Birmingham area. However occasionally he will run them in other cities when he's visiting them to run workshops or speak at dating events. Click here to email Peter about coaching outside the Birmingham area

When you book a session, Peter will email you to agree a mutually convenient time and place to meet. Each session lasts for one hour.

 Coaching by Phone

£25.00 incl VAT

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Coaching on the Phone

Telephone coaching is the best option because there are no travel costs and it can be done at a time that's convenient to you. The process is conducted by phone and email. It includes homework that must be done between sessions.

When you book a session, Peter will email you to agree a mutually convenient time for the call. Each coaching session lasts for half an hour.

Cyber Seminar - Talk to Strangers

£10.00 incl VAT

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Talking to Strangers Cyber-Seminar

How to Approach & Talk to Strangers

How many times have you "kicked yourself" for missing an opportunity to speak to someone - possibly because you didn't know what to say. In this cyber-seminar you will learn…

  • six sure-fire techniques to approach strangers
  • ways to start a conversation & keep it going
  • break in and out of groups at a party
  • ask for their phone number

Cyber Seminar - Making Small Talk

£10.00 incl VAT

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Small talk Cyber-Seminar How to Make Small Talk

Talking comes naturally to people when they know each other very well. But keeping a conversation going can be a struggle when you meet someone for the first time. In this cyber-seminar you will learn how to…

  • ask questions that make you stand out
  • listen to keep the conversation going
  • use your voice to sound interesting & confident
  • match moods so the other person likes you

Cyber Seminar - The Art of Flirting

£10.00 incl VAT

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Flirting Cyber-Seminar How to Master the Art of Flirting

Flirting is not just about dating. It's about being friendly, building rapport and creating desire. The most important aspects are your body language and your voice. In this cyber-seminar you will learn how to…

  • look confident and relaxed when sitting & standing
  • use your eyes and movement to attract
  • create a bond with your touch
  • use insinuation to say it without words

Flirting Safari

£40.00 incl VAT

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Flirting Safari

The Flirting Safari is a unique opportunity for a hand-full of people to get expert coaching in a real life situation!

Just four people on this unique event. We start promptly at 11.00am and finish by 2:00pm.

Peter will email you the joining instructions when you book.